Let’s make a deal, you and I. I’m going to give you a few sexy suggestions to try – I promise I won’t suggest anything too over the top if you promise you’ll give at least one of these a go tonight.
There are several handy ways of sharing this article, so you could even text your partner right now and say: ‘I’ve been taking hints…’
Let them guess what you fancy doing do when they get home.
There’s nothing wrong with it, people.
Watch some porn – together.
You both have a preference, so why not really explore what you’re both watching?
You can put it on in the background for a little inspiration.
Personally, I turn the sound down as it can get a little offputting.
One rule – pay for it. That’s where the best, non-rapey porn lies, and you can even get it customised.
Take a look at some of the webcamming sites, and pre-arrange with someone you find on there that you want them to tell you what to do.
You can live-stream in privacy whilst they watch or turn your camera off.
The beauty is you could drop them a few suggestions you’re a little too shy to admit out loud.
Set a challenge – you buy a sex toy you want to try, and your partner does the same.
See what kind of present you each come home to.
This could be fun if you have an evening out planned.
There are several sex toys which can be controlled by text or app.
So have a date night, but maybe with only one of you in control of the toy.
I hesitate on getting you both to use one at the same time, just in case it turns more into a competition than passion – but there’s nothing stopping you.
Take a chance
Or, what I like to call The F***-it Bucket.
You both write 10 things you would like to do, be it your partner to you, or you to your partner and pull it out like a raffle.
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