7 Ways Sex Pros Keep Things Fresh In the Bedroom

As a sex reporter, I’ve gotten plenty of excellent advice from sex experts on all kinds of topics, ranging from what rules to set before having a threesome to how to pull off the elusive nipplegasm (yep, that’s a thing). But one thing I’ve never asked — and always wanted to — during all these conversations over coffee, phone, email, and Skype is: “What secret sex tricks do YOU use that you haven’t mentioned here?”

Well, I finally got my answers—and they don’t disappoint. Some you may have heard before, but they’re all insightful and intriguing because they’re the moves the sex professionals actually use, which, in my opinion, gives them an extra dose of street (sheet?) cred. Find out seven of their best ones, below.

Make Foreplay an All-Day Thing

“A lot of people think of sex as a linear equation: kissing, foreplay, intercourse, then straight to bed. Well I’m here to tell you that the best foreplay lasts ALL DAY. I try to keep things sizzling between encounters. It could be something as simple as a long, deep, full-body kiss before going to work, or a racy text during lunch. The more specific, the better. I like to explain what I’ll be wearing and what I’d like to do to my partner when I walk in the door, so we’re both primed and closer to action.” –Emily Morse, Ph.D., sexologist and host of Sex with Emily

Let the World Fall Away

“When it comes to sex, alter your perspective so that it’s not just a continuation of your long, chore-filled day, but an alternate — and much more pleasurable, sensual — reality. There’s no faster way of killing the mood than getting lost in your everyday anxiety or worries, but falling into passion carries you out of your everyday experience. So let go and let your sexy self surprise you.”  Wendy Strgar, loveologist and sex educator, author of Love that Works: A Guide to Enduring Intimacy

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