Sex Tips for Virgins on Their Wedding Night

If you are a virgin on your wedding night, you’re probably feeling some apprehension about what will happen on your honeymoon, but there’s truly no need to worry. This advice and honeymoon sex tips will help things go smoothly.

How to Communicate Before the Wedding Night

Ask your soon-to-be-spouse if he or she is feeling nervous about the wedding night. Odds are, your betrothed is feeling a little apprehension too, and will be relieved to have the opportunity to talk about it.

Talk about what your hopes and fears are. If you’re nervous because your partner is more experienced than you, discuss it. If you know you want to prevent pregnancy, talking about safer sex is essential. You may even want to visit a counselor or talk about the topic during your pre-wedding counseling.

You should never feel nervous or embarrassed about bringing up the subject of sex. Your soon-to-be-spouse is about to become your partner for life, and you have nothing to worry about.

How to Communicate During Sex

The most important aspect of being a great lover is learning how to communicate in bed. For nervous first-timers, it might seem more natural to stay silent. Dirty talk can be intimidating before you’re comfortable with each other’s bodies.

Let your partner know what feels good and what doesn’t, and ask your beloved to do the same. Don’t be afraid to ask them questions like, “Can I try…” or “Does that feel good?” Knowing what each of you likes and dislikes ensures a more pleasurable experience.

Will It Be Painful?

When a woman loses her virginity, a little blood and pain are normal if the hymen is still intact. It is also normal to have no bleeding as the hymen may have previously ruptured naturally without ever having had vaginal sex. The pain of breaking the hymen is usually very brief.

Read more