where to buy?

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    • Lovehoney – apparently ‘the UK’s favourite online sex shop’ with a year long returns policy (yes, even if you’ve used it) and free postage above £30. ships internationally.
    • Sex Siopa – IE based but ships to the UK, owned by the lovely Shawna
    • Desires of the I.D – luxury and body-safe sex toys including lesser known and boutique brands, worth a look for something very special
    • Kisskiss.ch – luxury and boutique toys shipping from Switzerland all over Europe
    • Uberkinky – UK based; if you’re after a specific fetish toy Uberkinky’s the place to go
    • Sh! – one of London’s best sex shops, now with an online presence
    • BS Atelier –  beautiful hand-poured dildos, plugs, cock rings & rope handmade in Madrid
    • Babes N Horny – unusual dildos and harnesses made by hand in east London


    • Tantus – the grandparents of high-quality silicone goods and the creators of my favourite paddles, and famous for their heavily discounted Grab Bag section
    • SheVibe – frequent sales, vast stock, low intl shipping and heavily supportive of bloggers and educators. my go-to for US shopping.
    • Early to Bed – Chicago based; workshops and small brands aplenty
    • Come As You Are the world’s only worker owned co-op sex shop, based in Toronto
    • Lovehoney US – the US leg of the almighty Lovehoney. stock changes depending on each site – cross check first


    • Bedroom Bondage – SA based but ships worldwide; sells a wide variety of hyper-luxury goods
    • MissX – AU & NZ – beautiful pictures, body safe sex toys and frequently updated stock